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Sex, attraction, identity, and relationship questions

A survey average cannot tell you when to have sex, who to like, what label to use, or whether a situation was freely chosen.

The 30-second answer

There is no deadline for sex, crushes, dating, attraction, or choosing a label. Consent and safety matter more than matching a peer statistic.

Automatic body response and consent shown as separate concepts
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